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Friday, 8 February 2013

A Place in Our Hearts for God First - 1 Kings 7



1 Kings 7 gives us details of the homes Solomon built for himself and for his Egyptian wife.  The details may appear superficial and an unnecessary lesson in the architecture of antiquity.  But just before you gloss over this chapter and quickly get to the next, catch a life-adjusting concept that’s embedded in verse 1.  Verse 1 continues from the last verse of the previous chapter where it tells us that it took Solomon seven years to complete God’s house.  It continues in verse 1 and says, “But Solomon took thirteen years to build his own house.” This passage, coupled with Matt 6: 33, where we're instructed by Jesus to seek first God's Kingdom and His righteousness, read in the context of Haggai 1: 4, "Is it time for you, O ye, to dwell in your cieled houses, and this house lie waste?" makes the notion of putting God first, not just a great idea - but a requirement of the one who would be deemed a faithful servant of God.  And true to the thoughts expressed by Pastor Leo Ranzolin in the main Revived by His Word blog for 1 Kings 7, a place should be made in our hearts for the Lord first.



So this day LORD we give You our hearts, and everything with it.  Please make it our contentment to enjoy all You'll have us use for our own gratification and for the gratification of the ones we love and serve.  In Jesus' name, amen.

To read 1Kings 7 and other related blogs visit http://revivedbyhisword.org/en/bible/1ki/7/.

Wednesday, 6 February 2013

Frustrated Wives, Complacent Husbands

IT is a new year, with new opportunities to right wrongs and to strive to attain new goals.
Women, as my colleague Venese Madden recently wrote in an article titled Naïve wives and patient husbands, can certainly turn a new leaf this year when it comes to satisfying their husbands. But their men also need to give them a push-start in the quest to start writing on a new page.
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My colleague spoke about eliminating such things as women locking shop, and says instead that they should cater to their men's needs. I certainly agree that there are many ice queens out there who treat their men with coldness and disdain and I'm certainly not condoning shop-locking, but men must also realise that women are emotional beings, and if a woman is starved emotionally, coldness is bound to be her response.
If many men think back to the early days of their relationships, they'll likely remember that their women washed, cooked, cleaned, and were available 24/7 to satisfy their every whim and fancy, but over time, giving and giving without getting much in return may have left their women discontented and unhappy.
So while some women are naïve enough to think that they can keep ignoring their men's needs, other women have simply stopped giving because of pure, unadulterated frustration.
I happen to know of a situation being faced by one woman, whose man is working some distance away from home. She discovered that he is in a relationship with another woman, and when questioned about it, his nonchalant response was that he needs 'comfort'. To make matters worse, he constantly complains that he cannot afford to travel home very often to spend quality time with his woman, but she should understand his need to seek comfort in the arms of someone else!
Doesn't his woman and the mother of his children need comfort too? Now, if this woman decides to lock shop or stock up on "bun, bun and more bun", will he have just reason to lament that she is wicked?
Of course this is not the case with all relationships, but it is certainly true of many. In other cases, while men are home and there are no other women in the picture, there is still an absence of demonstrations of love, care and respect. Many men become complacent and they seem to think that the romance with which they showered their women during courtship is no longer a necessity once they settle into the relationship. But the bottom line is that women consistently need to feel loved, respected and appreciated by their men.
So what can a man do for his woman this year? Feed her emotional needs. Talk with her, find out about her day, touch her, hug her, pat her lovingly on the rear-end, kiss her passionately without any ulterior motive, help her in the kitchen, with the laundry, with the children, take her out on a date every once in a while, compliment her on her appearance, remember special days, buy a gift on a regular day 'just because' and remember to say 'I love you'.
I am convinced that many ice queens want desperately to warm up, but they're waiting for their men to turn up the temperature in the relationship. They're waiting for their men to prepare them warm baths, with some scented candles, rose petals and romantic music so the ice can melt away, allowing for the rebirth of the goddess of love.
Shaye Ann Campbell-Mosquera is a lecturer in the Department of Behavioural & Social Sciences at Northern Caribbean University.

Sin is Deceptive, Progressive, Narcotic and Destructive



What Did you Take Away?
What do you take away from a week of powerful sermons sent from God for such a time as this?  If you attended, listened to, or viewed the Northern Caribbean University Spring Week of Prayer (WOP) 2013, then several potent truisms may have come at you.  Do you remember this one?  “Many person spell friend E-N-E-M-Y (the person you often call your friend is actually your enemy).”  Another thing you might have caught was, “If entertainers in the world can jump for joy when they are on stage, then why shouldn’t Christians jump for joy in Jesus?”  And how about the reminder that we are no match for the Devil, but through faith in Jesus Christ, who conquered Satan, we can overpower him as well?  Or maybe it’s the fascinating notion that a diet including crabs affects our memory, could be a contributing factor to so many persons forgetting what God said we should “Remember.” Ex 20:8.  One saying that I found particularly instructive was the thesis on sin.  “Sin,” Pastor Clive Dottin, the Spring WOP speaker declared, “is deceptive, progressive, narcotic, and destructive.”  Who cannot testify that sin has been just that in all our lives at one time or another?


Sin is Deceptive
Robert Southey says this about deception, “All deception in the course of life is indeed nothing else but a lie reduced to practice, and falsehood passing from words into things.”  It is important that we wisely select the philosophical platforms on which our actions are staged; we must verify our sources and foundations.  Otherwise, we’ll fail to achieve a truly satisfying outcome in life.  Edwin Louis Cole is most helpful in the following quotation, “Knowledge of God's Word is a bulwark against deception, temptation, accusation, even persecution.”  Indeed, God’s Word has proven itself to be a trusted source of instruction for those desiring a successful life.



Sin is Progressive
I’m always amazed at how inexpensive it always is to purchase a pack of matches – because it is so important many times in determining whether or not I eat a cooked meal.  Now from a whole pack of matches, that is so cheap and accessible, it takes only one stick to light a fire.  If they had matches in Jesus’ days, it would have taken only one stick to prepare that boy’s lunch that fed five thousand men, plus women and children.  It would have needed only one stick of match to light that fire rod that was thrown on Jerusalem’s Temple wall that burnt it down to the ground in AD 70. The Great Fire of Rome, only six years earlier, scorched 10 of the 14 districts in Rome.  It spread quickly, and burned for 6 days.  When it was done 3 districts were completely destroyed, and 7 were badly damaged.  That fire too would have only needed 1 cheap match stick to have set the place ablaze.  Most sins start out with non-threatening “innocence.”  But left unattended, it’ll spread like a wild fire, leaving nothing behind, but a trail of death and destruction.  Thankfully, though, sin will cease; Satan, its originator, will be cast into a lake of fire.  He, along with sin and death will be consumed in its purging flames.  Isn’t it wonderful to know that Christ came to snatch us from the consuming flames of sin!  Zechariah 3:2 says, “Is not this a brand plucked out of the fire?”



Sin is Narcotic
The illegal drug trade; a global scourge that is a life-consuming force that not only destroys the lives of those who are addicted to hard drugs, but the lives of many of those who trade in the illicit drugs.  Many times also, those who oppose this deadly practice become the tragic victims of these brutal human vultures.  In 2011 there were as many as 12,366 drug-related murders in Mexico. Thankfully, though too early to call it a trend, the figure up to late November in 2012 was approximately 9,158.  Hopefully, things are trending down.  Hard Drugs or narcotics do as well as they do only because of their highly addictive and narcotic nature; for many of them, you get it once and you are hooked for life.  Sadly, sin (any sin… every sin) has that addictive/narcotic effect.

Within the artillery of implications that the word narcotic carries is the idea of mental numbness.  This speaks to the inability of the mind to respond in an appropriate manner; it becomes clouded.  In this miasma right often appears wrong, and wrong appears right.  Danger is often ignored and caution is recklessly thrown to the wind.  This is a state that is not only created by sin, but in a symbiotic relationship it fuels sin.

The ripple effects of the illegal drug trade accurately articulate the course that sin will take every unsuspecting, and sometimes suspecting sympathizer.  A pertinent question is asked and answered in Psalm 119: 9: “Wherewithal shall a young man cleanse his way? By taking heed thereunto according to Thy Word.” 



Sin is Destructive
Rightly understood all can appreciate that sin firstly deceives; if not nipped in the bud it progresses to the point of becoming narcotic in one’s life.  And still with no intervention James 1:15 is clear on the course that sin follows, “… and sin, when it is finished, brings death.”  Encouragingly, the Apostle Paul in stating this fact also includes a way of escape, in Romans 6:23, “The wages of sin is death; but the gift of God is eternal life.”  

John, the Disciple whom Jesus loved, addresses the reality of sin in our lives with much hope for a way out.  In 1 John 1:9, he says, “If we confess our sins, He’s faithful and just to forgive our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.”  And just in case we missed that point, he echoes a similar sentiment with a slightly different detail in 1 John 2:1, “My little children these things write I unto to you, that you sin not; but if any man sins, we have an Advocate with the Father, Jesus Christ the Righteous.”  Jesus has died our death at Calvary, so we can share His life for all eternity.  There is no reason why sin should destroy us.



References:
All Scripture passages quoted were taken from the King James Version
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Siege_of_Jerusalem_(70)
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Great_Fire_of_Rome
http://www.statista.com/statistics/152647/drug-related-murders-in-mexico-since-2001/